Tim comes ashore dripping with water followed by his 12 years old son. “I’m wet”, says Thomas, a big s
mile on his face, “That was a big splash”. “It’s a good wind this morning and gives the boat a bit of bounce”, Tim remarks.
He has been dinghy sailing on the Solent ever since he was a boy and his enthusiasm shows no sign of waning as a few years ago he took the step of buying his own boat. There are boating, sailing and yachting clubs of every size and shape in the villages and towns surrounding the Solent and he began by joining the Portchester Sailing Club. He says, “In those days the whole point of learning to sail was to take part in the competitions, and have a bit of fun on the way. As you got better you could move up to better and faster classes of dinghy. The bigger the club the more dinghies they owned and the further you could go. I think I was particularly lucky as I joined the club at the time it was still small and friendly but was starting to grow fast, so we grew together”. For the moment the competitive sailing is over as he now spends time introducing his son to the sea.
There is an apparent complication as Thomas has learning difficulties but Tim doesn’t see it that way, “I weaned him on sailing very carefully as I didn’t want him to have any off-putting experiences. I wanted sailing to be as good for him as it was for me, but then that’s something you would have to do for any child. If there are enough happy memories he’ll forget any bad experiences and want to come back for more”. Tim started taking Thomas sailing when he was eight years old. “At the beginning the trips were very short, only tasters, but he took to the idea very quickly. What wasn’t so quick was teaching him the skills he needs but that just needed patience.” In a classroom Thomas has to compete with other children and is distracted and frustrated easily. On the water those complications don’t exist; there are a few others instead, “But they don’t have the same effect” says Tim. Thomas’s proficiency has increased steadily and he has now become a useful crew member. “He makes a real contribution towards any trip now”, says Tim, “The sea is one place where he can feel free and a day on the water always has a good effect on him”.
In 2007 Rob and Wendy took up permanent residence on their narrowboat, at present moored on the Calder and Hebble Navigation.
